Parenting can’t be mastered

That moment as a parent when you wonder what the hell just happened.  One minute your children are nice and cute and now they grown with attitudes. More anger than a little bit, over things and holding on to it for days. You have no bills to pay, you just see the food in the fridge but do you stop to think how they got there. No uncle Sam is not supporting you but I am. I stop and think about when I was younger did I have such attitudes and yes I did at times and we felt it was for a reason. So perhaps something never truly change and in years to come my children my be thinking and writing the same thing and look back and smile about they put me through.  Overall you have to choose your battles as parents too. If your child is a good kid not robbing and using drugs and being totally disrespectful to you then we have to let them work through the different emotions they got going on and just say a pray that they get through it and it’s nothing serious. We as adults still have our attitudes with each other so what do we expect it’s ok for us and not them.  Well yes lol but the truth of the matter our kids are dealing with things we may have never faced or even with things we did face and we reacted the exact way. Take a breath and know that parenting is based on living and learning. It’s full of curve balls but as time goes on you get better. By the time you master parenting they will be parents too going through the same thing that took years to

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master. Even if we shared what we learned times would have change producing different results now with the next generation. Life you just got to go with it and keep trying and never give up on yourself or your kids.

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Just when you thought know one cares or is listening to your pain and suffering know that God is listening and he’s getting ready to bless you. Keep your faith the current situation of hardship is temporary. It’s just the start of your training so you will come out shinning and victorious.  We are placed in situation at times to see how much endurance we have. Are you willing to keep your faith in the struggle or is it only good when times are good. Through it all you still have to find strength to say thank you  Lord for another day to get it right. If your reading this know your blessed and change is around the corner. Just claim it by repeating change is coming my way and I’m ready.

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That moment when you see someone standing by the side dress normal and just talking to themselves and looking confuse and sad at life. You stop and wonder what could have happen to lead to this? Then you realize LIFE happened and if your not strong enough that person can be you in an instant. The trials, tribulation and grief of the everyday struggle is enough to tear you down. I know I have been torn at but I have grace and mercy on my side through my faith and praying that builds me up. Don’t just be brought down find something positive to lift you back up. I go back to Romans for strength.
We know that in all things God works for good with those who love him, those whom he has called according to his purpose. In view of all this, what can we say? If God is for us, who can be against us? Certainly not God, who did not even keep back his own Son, but offered him for us all! He gave us his Son — will he not also freely give us all things? (Romans 8:28, 31, 32 GNB)