The little things

Said it so many times but it’s true the little things in life makes the difference. Little issues that we face in our relationship can turn into an obstacle that can prevent growth and hinder love. At the same time a little act of kindness and love can leave a lasting impression. It’s not about material things but the way you treat each other. You might constantly complain about something and to you its nothing  but to the other person this little constant bother is elevating to annoyance and the fuse have been lit to the bomb that is waiting to blow. No its not caused by just one problem but all the little ones stacked up that have created this bomb that may not be able to be defuse. Yes those little things can snowball into a giant landslide. Unfortunately, the little good gestures just stay as memories but can be destroyed by the bomb that was created. Yes the good stuff can start feelings to flourish and grow into love but once again those good memories

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will be all you have to look back on once the count down begins and bomb goes off. Some would look and say how could this have happened others would say it took longer than they thought. Feeling are real and can withstand but so much before it’s too late.

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Imperfections

From a distance everything looks flawless but once you get closer the imperfections are clear. We need to becareful with what we are looking at or precede to be. It’s best to see and know the imperfections ahead of time to avoid surprises. Do you know what your really looking at? Many of us have learned how to hide our pain and secrets but as time goes by they slowly emerge and the make up washes off and the real you comes forth. What an eye opener it will be for many who thought they knew what they had just to discover it wasn’t so. We ourselves might even be surprise on who the real us is also.

Your beautiful

Ever look at yourself and say ” damn I look good” well if you haven’t let today be the start as we must learn to compliment ourselves first! Stop waiting on others to say how beautiful or handsome you are as you may never get it. Build up your self-esteem because you are beautiful no matter what others say or don’t say! Also remember inner beauty shines through to show outer beauty!!! Keep smiling as someone is watching and loves you! 🙂