Parenting can’t be mastered

That moment as a parent when you wonder what the hell just happened.  One minute your children are nice and cute and now they grown with attitudes. More anger than a little bit, over things and holding on to it for days. You have no bills to pay, you just see the food in the fridge but do you stop to think how they got there. No uncle Sam is not supporting you but I am. I stop and think about when I was younger did I have such attitudes and yes I did at times and we felt it was for a reason. So perhaps something never truly change and in years to come my children my be thinking and writing the same thing and look back and smile about they put me through.  Overall you have to choose your battles as parents too. If your child is a good kid not robbing and using drugs and being totally disrespectful to you then we have to let them work through the different emotions they got going on and just say a pray that they get through it and it’s nothing serious. We as adults still have our attitudes with each other so what do we expect it’s ok for us and not them.  Well yes lol but the truth of the matter our kids are dealing with things we may have never faced or even with things we did face and we reacted the exact way. Take a breath and know that parenting is based on living and learning. It’s full of curve balls but as time goes on you get better. By the time you master parenting they will be parents too going through the same thing that took years to

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master. Even if we shared what we learned times would have change producing different results now with the next generation. Life you just got to go with it and keep trying and never give up on yourself or your kids.

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It’s prep time

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Many times we find problems to be not only an annoyance but also a set back on things in our lives. If we continue to focus on the issue the growth stops in us. Instead of learning and preparing for doing better we just sit around dwelling and become stagnant. Use set backs as prep time to get better and stronger. You can’t go back in time but you can learn and grow.  Don’t give up on you because of a mistake.

It’s prep time

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Many times we find problems to be not only an annoyance but also a set back on things in our lives. If we continue to focus on the issue the growth stops in us. Instead of learning and preparing for doing better we just sit around dwelling and become stagnant. Use set backs as prep time to get better and stronger. You can’t go back in time but you can learn and grow.  Don’t give up on you because of a mistake.

Unexpected

Don’t be afraid of the unexpected just pray for God’s grace and mercy to see you through it. There are so many things that take place daily that are at times out of our control not everything but some things that you may not expect take place at that moment. Learning how to be prepare is not doable since you will be surprise how all that preparation goes out the door during that time. Just keep praying each day for guidance and understanding to deal with things not in our control and realize it’s either for us to achieve or learn something that is missing from our lives.

Nothing is impossible

And behold, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son, and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” (Luke 1:36, 37 ESV)

If we hold on to this scripture we will remain encourage to know there is nothing impossible to God. We need to believe and trust him. He knows what we need and when is the right time to give it to us. Everything we ask for we truly are not ready to have or handle at that moment. We must learn to wait and know that God knows what’s best for us. Patience is needed in this life.😀❤️🙏

1 Peter 5:6-8

Humble yourselves, then, under God’s mighty hand, so that he will lift you up in his own good time. Leave all your worries with him, because he cares for you. Be alert, be on the watch! Your enemy, the Devil, roams round like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. (1 Peter 5:6-8 GNB)

Stay humble and know that God is in control of your life. There will be many out there that will come to deceive you and try to lead you down the wrong path. Keep strong in your faith.😀❤️🙏

Keep pushing

We know that in all things God works for good with those who love him, those whom he has called according to his purpose. In view of all this, what can we say? If God is for us, who can be against us? Certainly not God, who did not even keep back his own Son, but offered him for us all! He gave us his Son — will he not also freely give us all things? (Romans 8:28, 31, 32 GNB)

Stay in courage through the storm, put on your rain gear and press through there peace and change at the end but you gotta push

Imperfections

From a distance everything looks flawless but once you get closer the imperfections are clear. We need to becareful with what we are looking at or precede to be. It’s best to see and know the imperfections ahead of time to avoid surprises. Do you know what your really looking at? Many of us have learned how to hide our pain and secrets but as time goes by they slowly emerge and the make up washes off and the real you comes forth. What an eye opener it will be for many who thought they knew what they had just to discover it wasn’t so. We ourselves might even be surprise on who the real us is also.