Parenting can’t be mastered

That moment as a parent when you wonder what the hell just happened.  One minute your children are nice and cute and now they grown with attitudes. More anger than a little bit, over things and holding on to it for days. You have no bills to pay, you just see the food in the fridge but do you stop to think how they got there. No uncle Sam is not supporting you but I am. I stop and think about when I was younger did I have such attitudes and yes I did at times and we felt it was for a reason. So perhaps something never truly change and in years to come my children my be thinking and writing the same thing and look back and smile about they put me through.  Overall you have to choose your battles as parents too. If your child is a good kid not robbing and using drugs and being totally disrespectful to you then we have to let them work through the different emotions they got going on and just say a pray that they get through it and it’s nothing serious. We as adults still have our attitudes with each other so what do we expect it’s ok for us and not them.  Well yes lol but the truth of the matter our kids are dealing with things we may have never faced or even with things we did face and we reacted the exact way. Take a breath and know that parenting is based on living and learning. It’s full of curve balls but as time goes on you get better. By the time you master parenting they will be parents too going through the same thing that took years to

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master. Even if we shared what we learned times would have change producing different results now with the next generation. Life you just got to go with it and keep trying and never give up on yourself or your kids.

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Psalm 100:5 the Lord is good

psa.100.5.The Lord is good; his love is eternal and his faithfulness lasts for ever.

Right now it looks like even God has forgotten about you, but just remember he does not lie and he’s there with you right now through every trial and tribulations you are facing today. Remember when you was down and out last time and you never believed you would rise again but you did? Well guess what hold on a little while longer, your going to rise again stronger than before.

Unexpected

Don’t be afraid of the unexpected just pray for God’s grace and mercy to see you through it. There are so many things that take place daily that are at times out of our control not everything but some things that you may not expect take place at that moment. Learning how to be prepare is not doable since you will be surprise how all that preparation goes out the door during that time. Just keep praying each day for guidance and understanding to deal with things not in our control and realize it’s either for us to achieve or learn something that is missing from our lives.

Not alone

He helps us in all our troubles, so that we are able to help others who have all kinds of troubles, using the same help that we ourselves have received from God. So our hope in you is never shaken; we know that just as you share in our sufferings, you also share in the help we receive. (2 Corinthians 1:4, 7 GNB)

Many times we go through life thinking know one understand what we going through and that we are truly alone but from the verse above we gain hope to know we are not alone. God is there through everything we are going through. In my personal life I been through several things that felt I couldn’t share with anyone and you struggle with what’s the right decisions to make but I learn through those time to increase my faith. God will direct you if you listen and you will even be surprise who he puts in your path that understand what your going through. It maybe a person you physically meet or something you read or even hear on tv/radio but the point is someone is going through what you are too. We are in this struggle of life together continue to hang tough. Keep praying! Your coming out of this with a smile again. ๐Ÿ˜€โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™

Life- struggles

That moment when you see someone standing by the side dress normal and just talking to themselves and looking confuse and sad at life. You stop and wonder what could have happen to lead to this? Then you realize LIFE happened and if your not strong enough that person can be you in an instant. The trials, tribulation and grief of the everyday struggle is enough to tear you down. I know I have been torn at but I have grace and mercy on my side through my faith and praying that builds me up. Don’t just be brought down find something positive to lift you back up. I go back to Romans for strength.
We know that in all things God works for good with those who love him, those whom he has called according to his purpose. In view of all this, what can we say? If God is for us, who can be against us? Certainly not God, who did not even keep back his own Son, but offered him for us all! He gave us his Son โ€” will he not also freely give us all things? (Romans 8:28, 31, 32 GNB)

Ephesians 6:12

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavens.
When friends and family turn against you don’t hate them pray for that evil spirit to leave them๐Ÿ˜€โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™

Your blessing is coming

Get ready for change and your blessing. You need to prepare you mind, body and soul for God’s blessings. Stop thinking negative about life and what it looks like. Don’t treat your body like you have several more waiting for you. There’s only one you treasure yourself. Your soul needs to be open and humble. Accepting the things we can change and understanding to deal with them.

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Don’t give up

We know that in all things God works for good with those who love him, those whom he has called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28 GNBDC)

Don’t let the trouble of this world turn your mind from your faith and give up on hope and God. It’s not getting easier but just imagine if you don’t have hope or a pray to help you through these times, then your loss and alone. God provides us the light at the end of the tunnel knowning we are not alone we can reach out to him and with faith things can change. Hang tough through the storm.

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Forms of blessings

But Jesus answered, โ€œThe scripture says, โ€˜Human beings cannot live on bread alone, but need every word that God speaks.โ€™ โ€.
Your blessings come in different formsโค๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜€ Many times we thing being bless is based on financial growth but blessings come in different forms. Good health, having a job, food to eat, roof over your head, etc. the list goes on having friends and family. Take a moment and realize just being alive today is a blessing. Be thankful!

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