Walk in my shoesπŸ‘žπŸ‘ŸπŸ‘ πŸ‘‘πŸ‘’

  • Take my shoes and walk a mile in it and see if you understand the pain, fear and sorrow that I face daily.   Will you finally understand me or will you be bold enough to say no big deal.  Is a mile really enough for you to feel me? Are my shoes just your size? No corns or calluses on your feet just to make this trade complete. Hmm, let’s think this through so you can truly see what I go through.  Let’s up the challenge to more than a mile, a day or a week, see you in a month that will make you complete. Completely, weak and feeling incomplete, with tears run down your face begging for this to end. A total nightmare I stepped into…my friend,  I had no clue, what it took to be you. I’m sorry for the hurt and the shame you face, the ridiculous acts of violence just because we didn’t understand what it felt like to wear your shoes. I too have issues that I face and my shoes show that I’m a disgrace for thinking the things I did, before walking in your shoes.  I learned a lot and this experience I will take with me and share with others in hope that we can stand together as one. 
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The little things

Said it so many times but it’s true the little things in life makes the difference. Little issues that we face in our relationship can turn into an obstacle that can prevent growth and hinder love. At the same time a little act of kindness and love can leave a lasting impression. It’s not about material things but the way you treat each other. You might constantly complain about something and to you its nothing  but to the other person this little constant bother is elevating to annoyance and the fuse have been lit to the bomb that is waiting to blow. No its not caused by just one problem but all the little ones stacked up that have created this bomb that may not be able to be defuse. Yes those little things can snowball into a giant landslide. Unfortunately, the little good gestures just stay as memories but can be destroyed by the bomb that was created. Yes the good stuff can start feelings to flourish and grow into love but once again those good memories

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will be all you have to look back on once the count down begins and bomb goes off. Some would look and say how could this have happened others would say it took longer than they thought. Feeling are real and can withstand but so much before it’s too late.

Parenting can’t be mastered

That moment as a parent when you wonder what the hell just happened.  One minute your children are nice and cute and now they grown with attitudes. More anger than a little bit, over things and holding on to it for days. You have no bills to pay, you just see the food in the fridge but do you stop to think how they got there. No uncle Sam is not supporting you but I am. I stop and think about when I was younger did I have such attitudes and yes I did at times and we felt it was for a reason. So perhaps something never truly change and in years to come my children my be thinking and writing the same thing and look back and smile about they put me through.  Overall you have to choose your battles as parents too. If your child is a good kid not robbing and using drugs and being totally disrespectful to you then we have to let them work through the different emotions they got going on and just say a pray that they get through it and it’s nothing serious. We as adults still have our attitudes with each other so what do we expect it’s ok for us and not them.  Well yes lol but the truth of the matter our kids are dealing with things we may have never faced or even with things we did face and we reacted the exact way. Take a breath and know that parenting is based on living and learning. It’s full of curve balls but as time goes on you get better. By the time you master parenting they will be parents too going through the same thing that took years to

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master. Even if we shared what we learned times would have change producing different results now with the next generation. Life you just got to go with it and keep trying and never give up on yourself or your kids.

Getting through this moment

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No matter what it look like right now don’t give up on God, he hasn’t given up on you. Hold on just a little while longer.Β  We are going to get through this. There a time for everything and as this time came it shall pass too. Lift that head up, wipe those tears, look in the mirror and say yes I can, yes I will. I’m beautiful and this situation will not conquer me. Yes it got me down but I shall and I will rise again. πŸ™‚Β  luv ya

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No matter what it look like right now don’t give up on God, he hasn’t given up on you. Hold on just a little while longer.Β  We are going to get through this. There a time for everything and as this time came it shall pass too. Lift that head up, wipe those tears, look in the mirror and say yes I can, yes I will. I’m beautiful and this situation will not conquer me. Yes it got me down but I shall and I will rise again. πŸ™‚Β  luv ya

God is great

Psalms 145:3 ERV

The Lord is great and deserves all our praise! No one can fully understand his greatness!

We go through things and wonder why and how but we must look back on all our blessings from the smallest to greatest ones that we never thought would take place. There is more good things ahead, if you believe in God’s

Enjoy your day, knowing that God loves you perfectly. Don’t dread the hard things that you must do today, because God is on your side and is ready to help you.

Victory is yours, if you hold on

http://bible.com/100/jas.1.2-3.nasb Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.
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Victory will be yours at the end of your storm, just don’t give up on God. It may seem like your all alone but your not he is there with you hold you as you both go through it together.

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You can do it!

Do not lose your courage, then, because it brings with it a great reward. (Hebrews 10:35 GNBDK)

When you try your best and just to the point of given up stop and realize why your trying so hard to accomplish a goal and that realization should be enough to push you a little harder. If your looking for a job it’s difficult but when you realized that once you get it the reward is becoming financial stable that’s a reward. It also work that way with your health if you make some changes it will improve your health and that’s a great reward. Don’t give up, I know it’s not easy but we see there encouragement in God’s word. We grew up to the little engine that could so today start saying I think I can and I know I will πŸ˜€β€οΈπŸ™

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