We all have goals and many times we don’t always accomplish them in the timely manner that we set for our own selves.  Sometimes we beat ourselves up so much that we begin to feel like we just can’t do anything right. Our words can make us or break us to a point of no return. It’s one thing when others put us down but when we start doing it it’s more destructive. Set realistic goals and know that change takes time. Your main goal is to not give up on yourself  



​Why do you watch me with such envious eyes? Have you forgotten my struggles and the tears I cried, you watching what I have and how far I’ve come, but how about the pain and suffering that I dealt with? How about the betrayal of friends and family? The way you stare as if you don’t care about my life or anything that once matter to you. Have that green-eyed monster capture you and brain wash you?  Is this really you and it your true colors shining through.  Perhaps, I was blinded by my compassion and love to not see this ugliness, that stares at me with dripping teeth waiting to devour me and take all hope away. But I fought through this before and I will fight again because I’ve come to far to start over again. One day you will look pass me and dwell on yourself and focus on your struggles and know one else. Instead of adding to my pain and driving me insane work on you and see what you can do to strive and survive just as I do. Don’t hate but learn to appreciate because your time is coming and it will be great. 

Gossip ….beware 

  • Many times when we see two people whispering the first think we wonder is what or who are they talking about. Some people are bold enough to go over and join the conversation and put their two cents in. The problem with gossip is the ones gossiping get so excited that any and everything comes out their mouth and this can lead to false accusations,  secrets being revealed and overall hurting someone’s feeling.  Self control is needed to avoid issues that could have been avoided in the first place. Many friendships are tested through surviving gossip. Can you trust a gossiper who have revealed secret about others? How do you know your secrets haven’t  been revealed and that’s why you saw sudden changes in people.  We all have gossip at one time in our lives and we probably all have said things we wish we could take back. So before starting or joining the gossip column stop and think about the long term results. 

Hey you I got something to tell you…Guess what I heard…..Stop playing really….oh my goodness I can’t believe he did that……she said what…….😲😭🤔😔

Stop the gossiping 😔😭😭😢😠😠

Victory, I said your mines

​You came  into my life and left a mark of satisfaction, you put that glow that everyone knows that something different took place. I like what I see, I love what I feel and hear that I can’t let you walk away from me. Victory, I have to say today I’m going to be the dominated one and claim you to be mines. If you try to leave me, I will search high and low for you. Sorry but I realize I can’t live without you and I won’t.  Victory do you hear me….I said today and always Victory your mines. 😇😊💖💖

Bye…what if

​Fill in the blank. 

If I could turn back time I would have never _______, but would have done _______ instead.
We all make mistakes some are easier to fix than others. Some may have stop us from doing certain things at that moment. We have to learn to stop beating up ourselves and others about things that happened years ago.  Yes,  it happened,  yes it was a set back but we are where we are now. Look forward and focus on doing better and finally let go of what if.

Hello God, you out there?

We face some difficulties from time to time to the point where we feel like given up. Throwing our hands up and walking away from life. Why aren’t things going my way? How much longer must I wait? Does anybody hears me or even cares? Hello God, you out there?   Yes, he’s out there and he sees what your going through and he have even told you what to do. One problem we face is that we feel that God is always going to talk to us in a plain voice that we can hear and understand. Sometimes he will but other  times he will send his answers to your in a different format. It may be through another person that you meet, through something you read, or even something we see or hear. You can listen to a song over and over and never realized what the lyrics were talking about. Till that moment when you are in need of an answer and then it like someone turned on the light switch and revealed what you was looking for. We go through trials for few reasons. Sometimes we can’t wait on God so we go ahead and do our own thing and now we are all tangled up and got to  be fixed and made straight again. Have you ever had your necklace or chains get tangled and if you pull at it, it could break so you have to take your time and pick through it until it’s release. Well that’s the same thing with us, God have to pick through the tangles to get you back on track. Our God is gentle and loving and he wants to make sure you come out with the least amount of pain if possible, so that’s why our trial period seems long. Can he get you out faster, yes he can and he probably did several times, but let’s keep it real some knots are harder to release than others. If you ever knotted up a material you will see once the knot is out the material is wrinkled showing evidence that something happened. That the same with our life’s.  After we get through the trial period there is evidence that we been through if not physical then emotional, but something is there. Today, let’s try to have a little more patience and wait on God to answer, he knows what’s best for us. He sees which path will bring us Joy today and which path will bring you hurt first before you reach that Joy. God allow us to make our own decisions and he walks with you along the way. We are always face with forks in the roads, and it’s up to us to choose. It’s good to know that no matter which way we go that God is there and will be the light to guide us through. Stay bless my friend don’t worry about not always making the right choices just know that with God all things are possible and he is listen. God thank you for listening and speaking but most of all for walking by my side. 

Morning post..

​When I awoke this morning I asked myself, “What is life about?” I found the answer in my room. The fan said, “Be cool.” The roof said, “Aim high.” The window said, “See the world.” The clock said, “Every minute is precious.” The mirror said, “Reflect before you act.” The calendar said, ” Be up to date.” The door said, “Push hard for your goals.” The floor said, “Kneel down and pray.” God whispered I will take you to it all. *Copy and paste if you believe 👊

Thought this was a good post to start the day with. We don’t know what’s ahead but just know your not alone on this journey.  Go forth and conquer. 

Move on 

It difficult at times when you finally realized that those by your side where not really your cheerleaders but just spectators waiting for you to fall. Waiting to pull out the camera or their fingers to point and shoot and say I told you so. ..I knew you would fall….Why did you even try. The negative vibes echoes in the skies, with a loud sound of Now What!  Do you trust your gut and try or do you not even give a try but allow fear to win. You got a chance now to move on my friend and say to Mr. Negative you got the wrong one today. You and Mrs.Fear can kindly go. Take with you the friends that turn out to be my foes. Even my family that shouted Oh, Hell  No!  Yes, I tried and hear to say look closely because I did survive.  Now you wondering how and why. In case you couldn’t figure it out its because I tried.