Is it broken?

If it’s broken why not fix it? You know what needs to be repair and you think about it and form a decision but never seems to carry out the plan to fix the problem. You would sit back and complain and not be happy but do nothing? Things that affect your life should be fixed instead of just pondering on what to do. Most times you know what needs to be done but just not how to start. Examine the situation and see how bad you want to change it if its bearable then you need to stop complaining about it and move it to the not broken list. We would more so try to fix things that are not broken instead of dealing with the problem parts first. Perhaps we know its easier to fix what isn’t broken and you end up feeling as if you accomplish a goal but, have you? If your not careful you may end up breaking things that were never broken and make them beyond repair. So before you gear up with you handyman tools review what needs repairing, destroying, recycling and burning first and leave the good stuff alone. Every item has a little imperfection some are so unnoticeable that it’s worth over looking. Don’t throw away a good thing!❤😀🙏



Stay focus

Why is it so easy to think the worse things and focus on negative vibes? When we hear the best is yet to come we doubt it very quickly or can’t seem to see that far ahead. Are we sabotaging our break through and success because we can’t see that far? To much negative thoughts will lead to negative results which makes you stuck and feeling its impossible. Lets make it possible! Why can’t it be better? Don’t you deserve the best? Start dwelling on how great things will be. Get ready for when it comes even if it takes time, don’t give up on it because you didn’t get it when you ask perhaps it wasn’t the right time. Don’t let that damper you positive vibes ! It’s time for a new frame of mind, a positive one that never hear the negative thoughts that come. Be stronger and believe your bless because God said so! Where my bless people at… Here I am!!❤🙏😀


Who are you?

Was reading my book about achieving your goals in a year and one interesting passage was for you to define your personal mission statement. Corporation and business all have them but what is your personal mission? What is your purpose out here? I ask this question to myself on several occasion as you would hope that your not just living to live but hopefully have impacted someone life along the way. Many parents impact their children lives in both positive and negative depending on the situation at hand and how you was raised. Some of us came from big families others from small ones but either way it made you part of who you are today. This is your chance now to make that desirable change you always wanted to make. If you could do things differently would you? I would if I could but at the same time I realize without those experience I wouldn’t be who I am today. So perhaps you are who you are suppose to be and you need to learn to appreciate who you are . Make the necessary alteration but be thankful for the person.


Revenge not the answer

Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. (Romans 12:17 ESV)

Revenge is not the answer as if you want to do wrong to others it will just be a circle which is a cycle with no end. The strength it takes to do evil is not worth it. There comes a time when someone has to be the bigger person and let it go. Yes the hurt you feel will clog up your thinking process so be mindful and think how much you will loose if you go forth with your revengeful plan. Would someone innocent get hurt or would it back fire and lead to even more pain? Is it worth the chance?


Is it greener on the other side

While in a relationship you have friends of the opposite sex and they are your friends because they do have an interest in you and deep down they hope one day you could be with them. You find one of your friend to be more open minded and share their feelings more freely. You start to wonder why is this happening. You lover or intimate friend isn’t big on words but does show actions that he/she cares and possible do love you. Just because one can say it doesn’t mean they can truly show it. Actions do speak louder than words right? So now if this friend decide they want to get bold and actually say to you will you marry me what do you do? Is this friend sincere? Should you take the chance? At the same time nothing is wrong with your current relationship so there is no need to end it or is there? You may leave something you know for something you may regret as they say if it isn’t broken don’t fix and don’t break so you have an excuse to fix it!


Play time

Always find time to kick back and relax and not be serious😀 so often we are stressed out with life and the many disappointments that we end up making ourselves sick, we need to find time in our day to be carefree so we can reenergized and be the best we can to make it through life. Been reading a wonderful book and down below is one quote I wanted to share.

“Playtime is just as important as the hours you put into work. Isn’t that great? You really must schedule time to play. Many people do not realize the importance of downtime until it’s too late and they are completely burned out on work.”

Achieve Anything In Just One Year: Be Inspired Daily to Live Your Dreams and Accomplish Your Goals
by Jason Harvey


Tongue power

A bit in the mouth of a horse controls the whole horse. A small rudder on a huge ship in the hands of a skilled captain sets a course in the face of the strongest winds. A word out of your mouth may seem of no account, but it can accomplish nearly anything—or destroy it! (James 3:3-5 MSG)

Something so small can create so much damage and heartache. Our tongue is so strong that it can destroy the self-esteem of people as well as build them up to be the best person ever. We need to becareful of what we let come out of our mouth as it can make or break a situation. Think first and then speak so no regrets follow after. When anger arise don’t let the tongue take control of your first thoughts. Don’t end up putting a foot in your mouth! 😱😀


Matthew 7:7-8

“Continue to ask, and God will give to you. Continue to search, and you will find. Continue to knock, and the door will open for you. Yes, whoever continues to ask will receive. Whoever continues to look will find. And whoever continues to knock will have the door opened for them. Keeping praying in God’s time which is the right time change will come!