When you are able to identify the problems and issues you are dealing with the next step is to take action. You can not continue on hoping for change to just appear without you putting in effort. Standing still will not improve your situation it will only allow it to fester and go out of control. Take steps and analyze what is wrong and come up with a plan. There no perfect plan as it will take time but starting the process is like turning on the hydrant to put out the fire before all of your dreams and who you are goes up in flames and become unrepairable. The flames symbolize the stress we have in our life that is just growing daily until we become the controller of it. Stop others from throwing wood into your fire and get the water now while you can reach it before its to late.